When Life Changes, Money Changes – When Money Changes, Life Changes

Major life and money changes create a new, unknown zone of life transition. We provide a tool that can help.

Money is more complex than we generally consider it. Experiencing a major life event has an impact everyone’s financial life. Whether it was expected or unexpected, welcomed or regrettable – any major change magnifies the complexities of life’s transitions – much to the surprise of the recipient.

If you have experienced a major life change or a money change, you probably found yourself in a new and unfamiliar time and place. The way life previously worked and the expectations that formed your view of the future may have abruptly changed, perhaps permanently.

The initial reaction is normally felt on all levels of life, particularly in your physiology and state of mind; it can literally be a state of shock. Stress and making financial decisions is like oil and water. If you are in a major financial transition whether caused from a happy or sad event, take inventory of your emotional well being. This may not be a good time to make financial decisions that cannot be undone.

If you are experiencing these emotions in a significant way, you may be in money shock:

  • Decreased concentration
  • Changing sleep pattern
  • Dizzy feeling
  • Anxiety
  • Sense of powerlessness and helplessness
  • Feeling overwhelmed
  • Withdrawn, lonely, isolated

A beneficial step is to create a Decision Free Zone (DFZ). This doesn’t mean you don’t make any decisions, but you prioritize the most important, time critical decisions and leave the other decisions such as buying a new house for when you are in a better place and the above signs of stress have decreased. The benefits of a DFZ:

  • It creates a safe space for orientation and self-discovery
  • It allows time to organize paperwork and information
  • It helps you find boundaries
  • It establishes priorities
  • It gives you time to take care of essentials
  • It gives you time to run scenarios to see the long term consequences.

Click here to use the one page Decision Free Zone worksheet. Forward this to anyone you know that is going through a transition. They will thank you. Be good to yourself and take the time you need to adjust to new life and money situations before making major financial or life decisions.

 

 

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